Saturday, December 17, 2011

Luke 12 Be Ready

Scripture:  Luke 12:40  You also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.


Observation:  Staying in the Word and prayer is essential because time is short and He could be coming any time. No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.  Matthew 24:36   I want to be ready when He comes!


Application:  When I get to heaven, I long to hear the words "Well done my good and faithful servant!"  Matthew 25:21  I want to make sure I'm ready for that day.  I need to allow Jesus to mold me into the woman He wants me to be and make sure He always takes first place in my life. 


Prayer:  My Lord,  Thank you that you have promised me a place with you in eternity someday.  I pray that I will be ready for the day you come to take us there.  Please show me the areas you want me to grow in and help me to become the servant you want me to be. Help me to be bold when it comes to talking to others who don't know you so they can share in the hope that I have.  Come quickly, Lord Jesus!


Amen

Luke 11 A House United

Scripture:  Luke 11:17  Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them:  "Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall.


Observation:  Many times I view our family as "me against them".  I don't mean to, it just slowly evolves. Then it becomes a game I can't win. I'm lonely and they're defensive.  I don't want to be a house divided.


Application:  I need to try to find more ways to involve my kids, enjoy time together, laugh and play with them and not get bogged down and frustrated with all my to-do lists not getting done.  A long time from now, I won't remember all the lists I scratched off but I will remember all the memories we made in the process. I want to make sure they're good ones.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Please forgive me for allowing my house to be divided.  I don't want it to be a "me against them" game.  I want us to be united in You. Show me how to create a more unified environment with more joy so that we can make memories that will last. Help me to not get so caught up in my lists that I miss the important stuff.   Thank you that your mercies are new each morning.  Please bless this family, Lord.   




Amen

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Luke 10 Choose What is Better

Scripture:  Luke 10:41-42  "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed.  Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."


Observation:  I am a Martha through and through.  I worry about many things and forget to focus on what really matters.  At the time, all those things I'm concerned with seem important but in the end I've lost perspective and "sweated the small stuff".  If I would only choose the better, I have the promise that it won't be taken away from me. In other words, I won't regret it.


Application:  Whether it's having people over, trying to keep up with the daily demands of life or just watching my daughter make a mess in the kitchen while she makes us cookies, I need to remember not to worry about the small stuff.  When people come over, I need to focus on loving them, listening to them and blessing them with friendship.  When my daughter is making a mess in my eyes, she's really trying to use the creativity that God gave her and bless her family.  I need to pray that God will help me see the more important things that are happening and that I won't focus on the silly little details that I get all caught up in.  


Prayer:  Dear Lord,   Please help me to focus more on the big picture.  I tend to worry about all the little details when you would rather that I focus on loving you and my neighbor.  Show me how to let go of all my concerns and let you guide me. Forgive me for missing the point so many times.  I don't want to look back and have regrets about not choosing what was better. 


Amen

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Luke 8 Nothing Is Secret

Scripture:  Luke 8:17  For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open.


Observation:  It's scary to think that all those things we think were done in secret will be revealed. It truly makes me ponder the past to try to remember anything I have done that I haven't ever told anyone.  Whatever it may be, Jesus saw and He knows.   It must be hard for Him to watch us doing those things we think we are doing secretly. 


 Recently, I was lied to. It broke my heart to know that this person I trusted would look me in the eye and lie to me.  Even harder, I knew I was being lied to but I was wishing that I didn't. It must break His heart to watch us sin "in secret".  


Application:  I need to remember that every moment of every day, Jesus sees me and what I'm doing.  Nothing is secret from Him.  I can't hide any sin or struggle from Him.  He loves me and wants to forgive me and heal me so that I can do the work He put me on this earth to do.  


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Please forgive me for the times that I think I'm "getting away" with something.  I can never get away with anything with you.  You see it all and I'm sorry that at times I must break your heart with my thoughts and actions.  Please help me to "take every thought captive" and make sure that wherever I am and whatever I'm doing that I'm honoring You.  Thank you for not allowing me to get away with anything and always holding me accountable.  
I want to be pleasing in your sight, always.


Amen

Monday, December 12, 2011

Luke 7 A God of Compassion

Scripture:  Luke 7:13  When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, "Don't cry."


Observation:  It is so comforting to me that our Lord is so compassionate.  He truly feels our pain and hurts with us.  I love knowing that His heart goes out to me when I'm struggling and He sees me when I cry. 


Application:  When I am feeling utterly alone and hopeless, I need to remember that He said in Joshua 1:5 "I will never leave you nor forsake you".  He sees me when I cry and is waiting to comfort me.  He understands my pain and hurts when I hurt.  He is preparing a place for me where there are no tears or pain to live forever with Him (John 14:2)  


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you for being such a compassionate and loving God.  I love knowing that when I cry, you are right there ready to comfort me and lead me on.  Please help me to allow you to comfort me.  Help me to feel your presence in those moments and remember your words of compassion and hope so that I can then get up and move on.  Thank you for the power of your love.  I pray that I can show that same compassion to others.  I love you my Lord.


Amen

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Luke 6 Students Follow In Their Teacher's Footsteps

Scripture:  Luke 6:40  The student is not above the teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher.


Observation:  The truth is that we unknowingly become like our teachers. They are in authority over us and we follow their lead.  This seems especially true when it comes to homeschooling.  I am with my children all day, every day and influence them greatly.  I need to make sure that I'm fully trained by my Teacher so that I will be like Him and teach my children accordingly. I want my children to see Jesus through me!


Application:  I know this has been repeated quite often but reading the bible and having a daily quiet time will ensure that I'm continuing my training.  I need to make sure that Jesus is my teacher and not the multitude of outside influences such as friends, television, facebook, etc.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Please help me to be consistent in my daily quiet time.  Help me to place you first above all else so that you are my teacher.  I want those around me to see you through me.  Please help me to follow in your footsteps so that my children will do the same.  Forgive me for allowing other things to guide and teach me when I should be focusing on the wisest teacher there is.  Thank you for daily meeting me for training!


Amen

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Luke 5 God's Grace

Scripture:  Luke 5:8  When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at Jesus' knees and said, "Go away from me, Lord; I am a sinful man!"


Observation:  If we could really grasp the amazing grace that Jesus gives us or the massive power He has, we would probably understand completely where Peter was coming from!  How small he must have felt when his eyes were opened and he caught a glimpse of who Jesus really was.  


Application:  I never want to lose sight of the greatness of Jesus. I can easily get caught up in the temporary things of this world and forget all that Jesus did for me on the cross and daily does for me in the forgiveness of my sins and His great love for me.  When I focus on it, sometimes it completely overwhelms me to think that He would do all of that for me.  I can't grasp it.  But I never want to stop trying.  


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you never quite seems to cover all that you have done for me.  You gave your very life for me so that someday I could come spend eternity with you.  Daily you forgive my faults and errors, loving me more than I can ever imagine.  The greatness of your grace and mercy and love astounds me and confounds me.  I give you my thanks and my very life to use for your will and glory.  I love you my Lord and Savior, my King of Kings and Lord of Lords and I can't wait to spend eternity with you.


Amen

Friday, December 9, 2011

Luke 4 Never Let Your Guard Down

Scripture:  Luke 4:13  When the devil had finished all this tempting, he left him until an opportune time.


Observation:  1 Peter 5:8 says "Be alert and of sober mind.  Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour."


  This verse immediately came to mind after reading Luke 4:13.  The devil is always looking for "an opportune time".  We need to always be alert and on our guard.  When the devil left Jesus, it was only to wait for that next open opportunity to try again.  He will never stop looking for that moment that you let your guard down.


Application:  There are several ways that I can be on my guard.  I need to be reading the bible and seeking that intimate relationship with Jesus daily.  I need to constantly be working on that relationship as I would an earthly one but with even more intense focus.  I need to be memorizing scripture so that when the father of lies starts whispering his nonsense to me, I can combat it with the truth.  I want to be so in tune with my father that I can draw on His strength and love when I'm in the midst of a battle.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,   I know that there will be times that Satan will try to use my weaknesses to draw me away from you. He will stop at nothing to make me believe his lies. Please grant me strength in those moments to call upon the truth of who I am in Christ.  Help me to stand up to temptations.  No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. 1 Corinthians 10:13


Thank you for loving me and wanting to have an intimate relationship with me. Thank you that you are Truth and I can always run to you as my strong tower.  Help me to never let my guard down!  I love you my Lord,


Amen



Thursday, December 8, 2011

Luke 3 Produce Good Fruit

Scripture:  Luke 3:9  The ax is already at the root of the trees, and every tree that does not produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire.


Observation:  We will be known by our fruit.  Talking the talk doesn't cut it, we need to walk the walk. Time is short and we need to make the most of the moments we have to show those around us who Jesus is through our words and deeds.


Application:  I need to make sure that my actions match my words.  I don't want to be a hypocrite!  I want people to know from my actions and words where my devotion lies.
 "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." Colossians 3:17


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you for allowing us this time now on earth to try to tell as many people as possible about you and your love so that they can live in eternity with you.  Your grace always amazes me.  Please grant me more of a sense of urgency to tell others about salvation.  I pray that my words and actions will help and not hinder my witnessing to others.  Help them to see you through me.  Forgive me when I fail in this area.  I truly want to produce good fruit in your name!


Amen

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Luke 2 Treasure Up

Scripture:  Luke 2:19  But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.


Observation:  As I read through this part of the chapter, I was thinking how chaotic it probably was around Mary.  I mean there was this newborn baby she was caring for and shepherds all around her and I just picture her quietly standing back and gazing at the scene in front of her. It seems like she was trying to live in the moment.  She was trying to remember every detail and work through all these wondrous events that had taken place in her life. She didn't want to forget a thing and was probably still amazed at the responsibilities that God had trusted her with.


Application:  I really need to do a better job of living in the moment.  I need to stop continually working to get through the next thing.  I don't want to forget this time in my life with my children.  I read this today on Facebook quoted from A Holy Experience


But the biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make while doing this.
I did not live in the moment enough.
This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of the three of them sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages 6, 4 and 1. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night.
I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed.

I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less.”

~Anna Quindlen


Oh how I want to change this about myself.  I want to treasure the doing!!


Prayer:  Oh my Dear Lord,  Thank you so much for speaking to me today.  Thank you for making sure that I heard what you wanted me to know before it was too late.  There are many moments that I've already forgotten or wasn't paying attention enough to ever remember in the first place.  I can't get any of that time back but I can make changes from now on.  Help me to live in the moment.  Help me to look in my children's eyes when they speak to me, to really listen and internalize their words.  Help me to show them they really matter in that moment and take the memories of those moments with me.  May I do this each moment of my day.  I really want to listen.. to You, to my husband, my children, my friends and those that really need to know they matter.  Help me to treasure the doing and not just the getting done.  May I show your love to each person that needs to feel it.  Please forgive me for getting caught up with all the "doing".  


Amen

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Luke 1 (Part 2) Believe

Scripture:  Luke 1:45  Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!


Observation:  I believe that this goes along with yesterday's amazement at Mary's faith.  When we believe in and allow God to work his will in us, He can do great and mighty things with our lives.  Our thinking is so small and limited, his perspective is big and limitless.  I want to believe that every promise of God will be fulfilled and receive His blessing!


Application:  Truly surrendering to God takes becoming intimate with Him in prayer and His Word.  The more you know Him, the more you trust Him and know that He wants to "prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future".  Mary must have been intimately seeking God to trust Him so much.  


Prayer:  My Dear Lord,   Thank you for the example of Mary.  She was a humble and willing servant.  She allowed You to work your will in her life and accepted whatever future you had in mind for her and the child she had yet to meet.  She trusted you wholeheartedly.  Please help me to be humble and willing as well.  May I trust you wholeheartedly.  Thank you for coming into my life and constantly guiding me into a more intimate relationship with you.  Thank you for loving me and wanting more from my life than my small mind can comprehend.  You always want the best and I trust you.


Amen

Monday, December 5, 2011

Luke 1

Scripture:  Luke 1:38  "I am the Lord's servant," Mary answered.  "May your word to me be fulfilled."


Observation:  An angel had just visited Mary and told her astounding news and yet Mary didn't question it. She believed in her God and agreed to whatever His plan was for her life and future.  I can't imagine what was going through her mind at that moment but in the end she fought through any fears and doubts she had and allowed God's plan to unfold. 


Application:  I want to have the faith that Mary had and allow God's plan for my life to unfold as He wills.  God always proves himself worthy of my trust...in the miracle of my children after years of infertility, in my marriage, my son's health after heart surgery and the list goes on. Why do I ever doubt Him?!  Today, I gave my day to Him, knowing it was packed full and chaotic.  As I was unexpectedly plunging the kitchen sink that was clogged, I questioned His plans for my day because they didn't match up with mine.  May I allow His plan to unfold even when it looks nothing like I think it should!


Prayer:  Lord,  please forgive me for ever questioning you or your plan for my life.  Your will is so much better than anything I could dream up.  Thank you for being patient with me when I become impatient with you.  Thank you for being trustworthy and please help me to have the faith I need to trust you with my life, even if it looks different than I expect.  Thank you for Mary's example of faith and Lord  "May your word to me be fulfilled".  I give you my day tomorrow and thereafter to do with as you will. 


Amen

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Proverbs 31

Scripture:  Proverbs 31:27  She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 


Observation:  We are coming to a crossroads in our lives and I may need to step up to the plate in ways that I haven't had to for quite some time.  My husband may be taking a lower paying job just so he can see his family.  Since our house didn't sell, we can't move to Nebraska and him living there and us here is just not conducive to being the husband and father he would like to be.  This may mean that the only way we can make ends meet is for me to find a way to make money and be more resourceful.  


Application:  I have begun praying that God will show me what to do.  It would need to be flexible enough to work around homeschooling my kids and I'm not sure what that would look like.  I know that God is in control and I will trust Him to guide me to the right situation and my husband to the right job so that we can continue to raise our family together.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Even though this situation looks difficult, I know you have a plan.  Thank you that you know what's best for my family and that I can trust you to guide us.  Please help us to make wise decisions that will honor you and our family.  Please show me how I can help my husband so he can come home and be the husband and father that he knows you would like him to be.  Thank you for giving me such a wonderful man that cares more about our family than money or career status.   


Amen

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Proverbs 30 Take Refuge in Him

Scripture:  Proverbs 30:5  Every word of God is flawless; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him.


Observation:  He is a shield to us but only when we actually take refuge in Him. There are many other places to take refuge but none of them are perfect like He and His word is.  


Application:   When there is a battle to be fought, it is the Lord's, if I let it.  He is a strong tower and I want to run to Him and be safe.  I need to continue to always seek Him and His words and wisdom to guide me and protect me. 


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you so much for being my mighty protector.  You are always there for me to take refuge in and I just need to remind myself that the battle is yours.  Thank you for your amazing and perfect word.  Help me to hide your words in my heart so that when I need to hear from you, it's just a thought away.  Forgive me for ever thinking that I can handle things on my own.  I love your grace and mercy and will ever be grateful for them. 



Amen

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Proverbs 29 Fear God and Not Man

Scripture:  Proverbs 29:25  Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.


Observation:  I am guilty of this way too often!  I am always worrying about what others think.  Doing my bible study on this blog has been a huge stretch for me and makes me weigh every word I write.  This is ridiculous!  This is a time I'm supposed to be devoting to the Lord and creating a record of what I'm learning and yet I'm so worried of what someone will think or say. Sheesh.  I worry every time I make a meal for someone or have someone in my home.  I never feel that what I have to offer is good enough.  Wow, I really need to work on this!


Application:  This is hard for me.  How DO I change the way I think?  Well, obviously the first thing I need to do is pray.  As I give this further thought, this is actually a pretty selfish way of thinking.  I mean I need to be doing these things out of love...Love for God and my neighbor.  So where does thinking about myself come in?  Well it shouldn't be.  I will be praying that God helps me to focus on Him and being His servant and not on myself and what others may think.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you for showing me some unflattering things about myself today.  Lord, I pray that my focus would be on pleasing you.  I'm sorry that I have been a bit selfish in worrying about what others think.  Show me how to change that way of thought so that I might do greater things for your kingdom.  When my mind is on myself, I know there's so much I'm missing out on.  Thank you for always meeting me for these few minutes of quiet time and revealing these things to me.


I love you, Lord.


Amen



Monday, November 28, 2011

Proverbs 28 Don't freeze up! Just give Already!

Scripture:  Proverbs 28:27  Those who give to the poor will lack nothing, but those who close their eyes to them receive many curses.


Observation:  This time of year is very overwhelming to me.  There are so many good organizations and charities that it's so difficult for me to decide the who, what and how to give.  I tend to freeze up and walk right by the Salvation Army bell ringer.  Money has always been a struggle for us that it causes me to hesitate as well.  I want our family to understand and participate in giving so they will grow up to be generous givers.


Application:  I'm going to continue to pray that God will make it clear where He would like us to give our time and money this season.  I will stop freezing up and listen to the call on my heart to help others, not just at this time of year, but all year long.


Prayer:  My Dear Lord,  Please forgive me for not responding to the needs of the organizations and bell ringers around me.  Help me to be able to clearly understand who you want us to help and how.  I want to honor and bless those around me that need not only material possessions but also need to know you and your great love for them.  Help me not to freeze up and walk by but to listen to your call on my heart.  Thank you for your many blessings on myself and my family.  Please help my children grow up with a desire to serve you through helping those around them.


Amen

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Proverbs 27 Protect Your Heart!

Scripture:  Proverbs 27:19 As water reflects the face, so one's life reflects the heart.


Observation:  What I allow into my heart and life is what will be reflected in my attitude and words.


Application:  I need to continue to take every thought captive and to be careful what types of things I allow into my heart.  I want to please God and be a light in this world to guide others to Him and I can't do that if my heart is polluted with worldly things.  I need to continue in a daily quiet time and be always ready to give a reason for what I believe.  I want my heart to be pure and my life to reflect Him.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Sometimes I am so bombarded by all the information that comes my way each day from the computer, tv, cell phone, facebook, etc.  I don't want all that information to keep me from having a heart and life that want to serve you.  Lord, help me to put you and your word first so that I will be able to sort out all the rest. As always, I need your wisdom and truth to prevail in my life.  I want to be a light for you and to do your will here on earth.  Please help me to protect mine and my children's hearts from the worldly things that can cause it damage.   I love you, Lord!


Amen

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Proverbs 26 Don't be Wise in Your own Eyes

Scripture:  Proverbs 26:12  Do you see a person wise in their own eyes?  There is more hope for a fool than for them.


Observation:  I don't want to be a fool! I never want to view myself as wise enough. God will always have more wisdom to impart to me. I'm so thankful for the times I feel His wisdom and I never want to feel prideful about those moments and play a fool.


Application:  I can never get enough wisdom!  I want to constantly hunger for it! I also need to remain humble about any wisdom that is given to me and use it for God's glory and not my own.  I never want to think I know the answers and stop searching out God's direction.


Prayer:  Dear Lord, Oh how I need your wisdom.  Thank you for blessing me with it when I need and ask for it.  Please help me to never be prideful or wise in my own eyes.  I lack so much and need your guidance and direction.  Help me to be your servant and use that wisdom for Your glory.   


Amen

Proverbs 25 Love Your Enemy

Scripture:  Proverbs 25:21,22  If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.  In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.


Observation:  We need to do the opposite of what our human nature wants to do.  Being ugly to those we consider our enemies will not win their hearts for Christ.


Application:  Be kind when I want to be ugly to my enemy. Pray for them.  Go above and beyond and bless them.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  You know how hard it is to bless others when they curse us. Please help me to be kind and loving to my enemies and maybe help their hearts to soften towards you.


Amen

Proverbs 24 Build your Strength

Scripture:  Proverbs 24:10  If you falter in  a time of trouble, how small is your strength!


Observation:  How we handle trials is a direct result of how we build our strength before they happen.


Application:  I need to be in God's word and prayer as much in the easy times as in the trials.  I need to build my spiritual strength up so that I'm ready for whatever comes my way.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you for never leaving me or forsaking me.  Thank you for freely offering me Your strength when I'm weak.  Please help me to continue in a daily time in your word and prayer so that when the day of adversity comes, I am spiritually strong enough to handle it.  I want to be able to see trials through Your eyes and wisdom; not my own.  Thank you for loving me.


Amen

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Proverbs 23 Eternal Riches

Scripture:  Proverbs 23:17-18  Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the Lord. There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.


Observation:  When we see others not living for the Lord and enjoying wealth and prosperity, we need to remember where our treasure lies.  They are receiving their reward on earth, ours is waiting for us in heaven. 


Application: I am so thankful that my hope is in the Lord.  If my hope lay in anything else I would live in fear of losing it, for everything else is temporary and fleeting.  When I take my eyes off of Him, envy can begin to creep in. There is no reward greater than eternity with Jesus. I need to continually remember that!


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you for dying on the cross for me so that I may spend eternity with you.  I know at times I take my eyes off of the eternal prize and allow envy in.  Thank you for your forgiveness and grace.  I am so thankful that I don't have to live in fear of losing that promise.  Heaven's glory is worth waiting for!!  Help me to point others to you so that they may also have the hope of heaven and eternity!


Amen



Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Proverbs 22 Prudent not Simple!

Scripture:  Proverbs 22:3  The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.


Observation:  There are times that I sense danger but for one reason or another, don't act on it.  Sometimes I may be too embarrassed to speak up or I may question my instincts and think I'm being over sensitive.  I need to remember that the holy spirit will nudge me in the right direction if I'll let Him.


Application:  Instead of continuing in a dangerous direction because of fear of embarrassment, I need  to listen to the Holy Spirit's direction and take refuge. I don't want to end up paying a penalty for my bad judgement.  I will continue to pray for God's wisdom in those situations and trust His guidance. 


Prayer:    Thank you, Lord, that you have given us the Holy Spirit to gently guide us.  Forgive me for the times that I have allowed embarrassment and peer pressure to stop me from changing direction.  If I sense your Holy Spirit pressing me, I pray for your strength to follow your lead.  I ask you to fill me with your wisdom to guide myself and my children in the way you want us to go. I don't want my children to pay a penalty for my bad judgement.  Help me to be prudent and not simple!  Thank you, Lord!




Amen

Monday, November 21, 2011

Proverbs 21 Don't Plan Your Life Away

Scripture:  Proverbs 21:30  There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the Lord.


Observation:  No matter how smart or witty someone thinks they are, God is the ultimate authority.  


Application:  If my plans are just mine alone, they will not succeed but if my plans line up with God's will, then I will be exactly where He wants me to be.  I am a planner by nature but I need to remember to slow down and ask God for His wisdom before I waste my time.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Please forgive my desire to control things at times as I plan incessantly.  I want your will and blessing on my life and to be exactly where you want me to be.  Help me to stop and ask you for your wisdom before I plan my life away.  I know you have a purpose for me and I don't want to miss it by leaving you out my plans.  


Amen

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Proverbs 20 Be Careful What You Promise

Scripture:  Proverbs 20:25  It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider one's vows.  


Observation:  We need to be careful what we promise to others. 


Application:  Before we rashly make promises to others, we need to make sure we can follow through.  It reflects badly on our character when we make promises we can't keep.  I need to think before I vow so that my word will mean something to others.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


I want to be someone that others can trust.  I never want my word to be seen as empty and meaningless.  Please help me to think it through before I make a promise to someone. Thank you that your Word can always be trusted and your promises are always kept. 


Amen

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Proverbs 19 Don't Blame God

Scripture:  Proverbs 19:3  A person's own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord.


Observation: Many times God receives the blame for man's wrong decisions. Even though God is all-powerful, He gives us free-will. He allows us to make the decisions but also to take the consequences for those decisions. 


Application:  Sometimes my decisions will not be pleasing to God. When this happens, the consequences will probably not be pleasing either. I want to bathe my life in prayer so that God can work through my decisions and help me make the right ones. Even when things don't turn out the way I think they should, I can then trust God with the outcome.  I don't want to blame God, I want to trust Him.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,   Forgive me for the times when I angrily blamed you for the choices that I made.  Please help me to listen to your words of direction when I'm making a decision so that I can trust the outcome to you.  I want to make Godly choices and bless and honor you with my life.  I love you Lord.


Amen







Friday, November 18, 2011

Proverbs 18 Don't be a Fool

Scripture:  Proverbs 18:2  Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.


Observation:  Funny thing... As I was getting ready to do my bible study, I was struggling with frustration at my husband and praying that God would guide my thoughts as they were not pleasant ones.


 You see, back when the economy started going bad, my husband was laid off from his job.  We were so blessed that he received another job offer that same day.  It was amazing.  The plan was that we would have to move to Nebraska since that's where the job was mostly focused.  Then our house wouldn't sell.  So for the last 2 years, my husband spends at least Monday through Friday in Nebraska in hotels and comes home to his wife and 4 kids on the weekends.  His job is very stressful and his boss calls at all hours and days so there really is never a true day off.  It's begun to take it's toll.. on him, our marriage, and our kids.  So today, I was excited that he had come home to spend the weekend with us! No sooner had we got out of bed, when his boss called and that's the last we'll see of him for awhile.  My frustration was great when I sat down to read God's word. Then the first two verses of Proverbs 18 slapped me in the face.  I don't want to be a fool, I want to understand. I don't want to just air my opinion because that won't help the situation.  It would only serve to make my husband feel guilty.  He's trying so hard to provide for his family and be THERE for his family and right now, that's physically hard to do.  I don't want to be a fool, I want to be the wife he needs me to be in this phase of our life.


Application:  Today, I'm going to build my husband up! It's his birthday and I'm going to try to make him feel as loved as I possibly can.  I'm going to encourage him and tell him how much we appreciate all his hard work for us.  I am going to find delight in understanding how hard he is trying to balance everything and tell him how great I think he is doing.  I'm so thankful that God gave us such a hard-working, God-loving husband and father and I'm going to honor that gift.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  Thank you so much for giving my husband to me.  Forgive me when I become frustrated and selfish with him and his time. Forgive me for being negative and criticizing him when he really is trying his best.  Help me to be the wife he needs me to be right now.  I want to be loving, encouraging and appreciative of the gift you have given to this family in a wonderful father, husband and provider.  I don't want to be a fool in airing my own opinion but to give understanding for the situation we're in right now.  Thank you so much for giving him this job.  If there is a different solution to our job situation, I pray you would grant us wisdom to find it.  Thank you for taking care of us.




Amen 

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Proverbs 17 Let It Go

Scripture:  Proverbs 17:9  He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends. 


Observation:  It seems a lot of my bible studies lately have to do with my tongue! I think I'm getting the hint :)


When it says "covers over an offense", I believe that means to forgive and let it go. Sometimes I think an offense lingers in the back of our mind for awhile though and we may be tempted to share our frustrations with another, hoping it will make us feel better. It doesn't..and it causes another person to also carry the offense, when it wasn't their's to begin with.


Application:  When I give someone my forgiveness, it needs to come with a promise in my heart to hold my tongue and let the matter go. 


Prayer:  Dear Lord,  I know there will be times that a friend unintentionally offends me and I them.  I pray you would help me to give forgiveness freely, without any "catches".  I don't want to hurt the friendship even more by sharing that offense with others.  Please forgive me when I have done this in the past, not realizing the harm I was causing.  Help me to promote love and not separate close friends.  Thank you for blessing me with some of the most amazing friends a girl could ask for!  May I be as good a friend to them as they are to me.  


Amen







Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Proverbs 16 Nothing is Random

Scripture:  Proverbs 16:33  The lot is cast into the lap, but it's every decision is from the Lord.


Observation:  No matter how random or coincidental anything may seem, God is orchestrating it all.  Nothing is random.  He is always in control.


Application:  I'm a worrier. Always have been. I need to remember that no matter the situation, no matter how out of control it seems, even when it seems our lives are in the hands of our finances or job, it's a lie.  God controls it all. Even if we were to cast lots, he would determine how the dice landed.


Prayer:  Dear Lord, 


Thank you that you have everything in your more than capable hands. I have nothing to worry about.  You control every aspect of life and I am learning to trust you more and more each day. Please help me to let go of worry and fear and allow you to work out your plan for your glory.  Forgive me when I allow my focus to fall on my fears instead of your power.  I love you so much and thank you for being my hero.


Amen

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Proverbs 15 Have a Happy Heart!

Scripture:  Proverbs 15: 13  A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit.


Observation:  A lot of times, I let my circumstances get me down.  I know my face shows my downheartedness.  This affects my relationships with my kids and those I meet during the day.  I don't want to allow my circumstances to rule my heart...  I want God and His joy to rule my heart!


Application:  When the day is tough, I need to have a happy heart and put on a cheerful face. I need to remember that God planted me where I am, in the circumstances I'm in, for a reason.  He loves me and wants only the very best for me and that's enough to make my heart happy.  Circumstances are temporary but God's love is eternal.


Prayer:  My dear Lord,  


Please forgive me for allowing each day's circumstances to dictate my heart and attitude.  I don't want my heartache to crush my spirit or those around me.  Please help me to have a happy heart no matter what is going on around me and to trust that you desire only the best for me and my family.  Thank you for the blessings you pour out on me each day.  Thank you for the sacrifice of your only son so that I might have eternal life.  Please rule my heart with your eternal love and joy.  I love you my Lord and King!


Amen

Monday, November 14, 2011

Proverbs 14 Build Your House

Scripture:  Proverbs 14:1  The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.


Observation:  Every day we have a choice.  We can be kind and uplifting to those around us or we can tear others down with criticism and negativity.  The first builds our house, the last tears it down.  We are responsible for which one we choose.


Application:  When I wake up each morning, I want to make a conscious decision to build my house that day. Starting with prayers of thanksgiving for all my blessings and praying for each family member makes for a great start.  I need to make an even bigger effort to not allow myself to miss those first moments of the day with the Lord.


Prayer:  Dear Lord, 


Thank you for blessing me with an amazing family.  I want to build this house daily with words of encouragement and loving kindness and not tear it down with harsh words.  Please forgive me for the times when I hurt others with criticism and negativity.  Help me to seek you each morning in prayer so I may start each day filled up with your love.  


Amen  

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Proverbs 13 Discipline is love

Scripture:  Proverbs 13:24  He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.


Observation:  Disciplining children is tough.  It's a never ending process that can be exhausting but if we are careful to discipline, we teach our children essential life skills that last a lifetime.  The kids I have been around that have lacked parental correction seem to be insecure and needy for attention. They lack self control and are not self motivated.  I'm finally understanding how giving our kids discipline is showing them love.  It teaches them all those skills they need to be a successful adult and loving parent.


Application:  With my husband's job taking him away from home, it leaves me to do a lot of single parenting.  I grow weary in the constant correcting. I need to keep my eye on the prize.  God has given me an important assignment and I need to carry it out to the best of my ability!  I only have so much time with these beautiful children that He has gifted me with and I want to be faithful to do His will. I not only want to hear "Well done, my good and faithful servant" but I want each of my children to hear that as well as they reach the end of their own journeys someday.  How well I do at this job not only affects my children but my grandchildren and their children and so on!


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Thank you for the gift of each of my children! Thank you for entrusting them to me to train and prepare them for being an adult and parent one day themselves.  Please forgive me for getting weary and not following through on things the way I should at times.  Help me to "Train them up in the way they should go so that when they are old they will not depart from it".  I want my children to be a blessing to You all they days of their lives as well as their children and their children and their children....  


Amen

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Proverbs 12 A Wife of Noble Character

Scripture:  Proverbs 12:4  A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.


Observation:  I want to be a wife that my husband enjoys talking to and about! I want to be his greatest cheerleader and confidant and his very best friend.


Application:  Our situation is  difficult right now. My husband works out of state and it's hard to balance our marriage and family just on the weekends. I tend to get negative and frustrated. My husband is very stressed with his job and I don't want to add any more stress to him so I need to remain positive and confident that God has a plan through all of this! 


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Thank you so much for my husband's job.  Even though it takes him away from us, it's such a blessing that he has one. Please give me the strength and wisdom to know how best to encourage him in every way I can.  I want to be a wife of noble character and be my husband's crown!  I know you have a plan in this situation and I trust you to work it all out!


Amen

Friday, November 11, 2011

Proverbs 11 Give Freely

Scripture:  Proverbs 11:24  One man gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.


Observation:  It is so hard to give freely when money seems so tight. It never ceases to amaze me though how when you give, the money seems to stretch even farther. I want to be generous and give freely but wisely.


Application:  There are many out there that have needs and I need to remain sensitive to where God would like me to help.  I want to be His servant and His tool to reach others in His name. I'm going to pray for His guidance to show me where he would like me to give freely.


Prayer:  Oh Lord,  You know I have failed to give a tithe or offering regularly.  I am so sorry that I have short changed your kingdom.  Please help me to have the wisdom to know where and what to give to help others and your church.  I know your word says to "Test Me in this" in Malachi and Lord, you know our financial situation better than anyone.  Please help us to give out of faith and not out of the excess that we are always hoping to have.  I want to give freely and generously and faithfully.  


I love you Lord,


Amen

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Proverbs 10 Hold your tongue!

Scripture:  Proverbs 10:19  When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.


Observation:  Sometimes it is wise to hold your tongue. The more you talk, the more chance you run of saying the wrong thing.  I want to make sure that I think before I speak. I don't always have to say out loud the thoughts that are running through my head... they aren't always pleasant and could be hurtful. Today I had a long, drawn out argument with my 13 year old daughter over the name of a particular McDonald's cheeseburger.  Like it mattered.  What does matter is that I hurt her feelings when I should have dropped the subject in the first place.  I wish I had held my tongue.


Application:  I want to "take every thought captive" but when that doesn't happen, I want to make sure I don't hurt someone with my words.  I would like to listen more and speak less.  I need to decide when something actually needs to be said and when I need to keep my tongue.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


I know my tongue can really get me in trouble.  This past week I can think of a few times when I needed to just close my mouth and walk away and I didn't.  Please forgive me for hurting others at times when I don't think before I speak.  Please grant me wisdom to know when the matter is important enough to be said, and when that person is more important than the matter.  I want to please you with my words and to speak in love.  Thank you for loving me!


Amen

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Proverbs 9 God is Bigger!

Scripture: Proverbs 9:10  The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.


Observation:  Understanding the vast power of the Lord is a big step to getting wisdom.  He created the earth and everything in it.  He is bigger than we can even grasp, He Is God!  The more we know of Him, (knowledge of the Holy One by reading God's word) the more we can begin to grasp His bigness and gain wisdom.


Application: For 9 days now, I have consistently been doing this study. I know that's a small amount of time but I'm thankful for all that the Lord is showing me.  I do want to gain wisdom and I can't wait to see all that God will reveal to me by just being consistent in spending time in His word and prayer. I want to get a grasp on His bigness and my smallness so that I might grow in Him.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Thank you for your great love for me!  Thank you that even though you control life and death, you choose to give me life daily and life abundant. Thank you for your grace and forgiveness! Please help me to continue to be consistent in studying your word and prayer that I might continue to grow in You daily.  I want to gain wisdom and understanding of who you are and who you created me to be on this earth.


Amen



Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Proverbs 8 Desire Wisdom

Scripture:  Proverbs 8:11  For wisdom is more precious than rubies, and nothing you desire can compare with her.


Observation:  This is hard for me to admit.. I have the art of comparison down.  I compare what someone else has to what we have constantly-without even realizing I'm doing it: Gina is on a cruise? I wish WE could afford that.  Lisa bought a new sweater? I wish I could afford that.  You get the picture. I know I need to stop and I'm working on it but old habits die hard, right?!  Something I need to desire more than any material object is wisdom.  It's worth so much more than anything I can imagine or anything my neighbor has.


Application:  Stop desiring what I don't have and start being more thankful for what I do have!  Focus on storing up for myself treasures in heaven and not on earth.  Desire wisdom.  Seek it. Pray for it earnestly and be content.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Forgive me for not being content. Please forgive me for coveting what my neighbor has.  Thank you for the countless blessings you shower on me daily.  Please help me to seek first your kingdom and the treasures of heaven that are worth so much more than I can imagine.  I want to desire your wisdom above all else.  I pray you will help me in my search for it daily.  I love you, Lord.


Amen

Monday, November 7, 2011

Proverbs 7 Pleasing God Only

Scripture:  Proverbs 7: 2   Keep my commands and you will live; guard my teachings as the apple of your eye. 


Observation:  So many times I am swayed by those around me to allow things in my life that aren't biblical. I need to stop allowing other's lives to negatively influence my own decisions for myself and my family and hold tight to the Lord's teachings.  He is the only one that I need to please.


Application:  There are so many decisions to be made in a day. Sometimes I grow weary of trying to make the right ones. I end up saying "Well, so-and-so did it, so it must be okay", instead of looking to God's word for direction.  I don't want to be a lazy christian. I need to continually be in God's word and asking HIM for His direction and not looking to others for it.  I need to guard His teachings in my heart and not allow anything to sway me.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Please forgive me when I've been a lazy christian.  I never want to grow weary of doing good. Please help me to keep your commands and to guard your  teachings as I know it comes with a wonderful promise.. that I will live!  I don't want to allow outside influences in my decisions for myself and my family that are not biblical. Lord, please grant me strength to keep fighting the good fight, even if it's not pleasing to others.  Help my sole focus be to please you and you only.  Thank you for your precious word that I have the freedom to access whenever I need it.  You are such a generous and loving God and how I praise you for your many blessings!


Amen





Sunday, November 6, 2011

Proverbs 6; Be Prepared!

Scripture:  Proverbs 6:6-8  Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest.


Observation: I can be lazy sometimes..yes, yes I can.  I know it's not a Godly trait as he never stops working! I do think that this can be applied more spiritually than physically to me.  I don't "feel" like doing a quiet time that day... I'm too tired to pray and study... but my tv show is on.. Yeah, I'm admitting that. After I've skipped my time with the Lord, I inevitably look back at all the time and energy I actually had and spent somewhere else and feel defeated. I'm so thankful that His mercies are new every morning. 


Application:  I don't want to be lazy with my relationship with the Lord!  I want to be ready spiritually for each day and what it may bring.  Last night, we had an earthquake in Kansas.  Yep, weirdest thing I've ever felt. It took everyone off guard and really shook us up (literally!) We are not even close to being prepared for an earthquake. In fact, we don't even know what that means.  I don't want to be caught off guard in the "earthquakes" that will inevitably happen in this life.  I want to be spiritually prepared and ready for whatever this life has in store but I can only do that if I'm not being lazy in my  relationship with my Lord.


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Thank you that you are always waiting for me to come sit down with you.  I'm sorry that I often get lazy with our relationship.  Help me to store up provisions for the inevitable "earthquakes" in life by spending that intimate time with you. Forgive me for making excuses or putting other things in front of our relationship.   I love you so much my Lord.


Amen

Proverbs 5; God sees it all

Scripture: Proverbs 5:21  For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all his paths.


Observation:  Everything I do, say or think is in full view of the Lord. If I think I'm doing something in secret, I never am. I want to be the same person whether I'm alone or with others because God sees it all.


Application:  I believe the area that I struggle isn't so much the doing and saying as these are usually done with others around.  It's the thinking. I need to remember that he hears everything that I think as well. I need to take every thought captive!


Prayer:  Dear Lord, 


I know there are times that my words and actions don't reflect you.  I want to be who you created me to be all the time and not just when I think others are watching.  I know sometimes I have negative, ugly thoughts about others or about a situation.  I want to be so infused with you that even my thoughts please you.  Forgive me, Lord when I have failed to do that. I know that my thoughts will directly affect my actions and words and I want to be pleasing to you in every way.  


Amen

Friday, November 4, 2011

Proverbs 4; Guard your heart by guarding your tongue

Scripture:  Proverbs 4:23-24    Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. Put away perversity from your mouth; keep corrupt talk far from your lips.


Observation:  I found it interesting that immediately following the admonition to "guard your heart" is the admonition to "put away perversity from your mouth" and "keep corrupt talk far from your lips". I have always told my kids that what is in their heart will eventually come out of their mouths. 


Application:  I have never had a crude mouth but I do believe I can be quite critical of others and may share things that have been told to me in trust.  I not only think this affects my own heart but that of others.  I hurt other's hearts when I criticize them or betray their trust in me.  I also am showing the ugliness in my own heart.  I need to be very careful of what comes out of my mouth!


Prayer:  Dear Lord,


Thank you for forgiving me when I say things before I think them through first.  I pray that you will give me discretion when others put their trust in me.  May I be worthy of their trust.  I also pray you would help me to be kind and encouraging with my words to others.  I want to guard my heart and the hearts of others that I influence. 


Amen